“We have very different views on sexual assault. We have very, very different views on how life should be lived. My dad thinks life should be lived one day at a time; you’re cherishing every single moment. But there are some moments it just shouldn't be cherished. There are some moments that should just be thrown away because why would you want to relive moments if they just make you unhappy. He argues that those moments are crucial to understanding life in a more meaningful way and how you can use those to grow. I think yes there are some instances where you can use certain situations and certain life lessons to grow but there are some that you don't need to hold onto. It's like you're grasping at something that just is making you more unhappy.”